Introduction
With the increase of internet usage for our primary means of information, communication and certain social events, content creators and influencers can easily generate a worldwide following as a self-proclaimed expert. Since the interent has no respect of persons (or an automatic scam feature), many influencers use their platforms to capitalize from their audience’s ignorance and vulnerability. I feel remissed to not address the misinformation and blatant scamming when it comes to niches in which I am well versed. In the Truth series, I will be discussing some of these commonly misunderstood subjects.
Part I: Femininity
Let us start with the definition. Femininity is the biological essence of a woman which influences her words, thoughts, and actions. A woman’s connection to her femininity impacts her lifestyle, deportment, her interaction with others, her worldly and spiritual perspectives.
FACT: A woman’s femininity is embedded within our state of being, not a surface level attribute that is summed up to wearing a pretty dress and heels. The feminine woman is more than her wardrobe, although her clothing style is an expression of her feminine essence.
FACT: Femininity is NOT the latest come up scheme to manipulate men. No ma’am! True femininity is genuine. Turning tricks is for whores, which is not the deportment of a feminine woman! When a woman is in tune with her feminine essence, she does not need to trick a man into giving her what she wants—he will naturally oblige to her requests (shh, don’t tell anyone our secret 😉
FACT: Femininity is the lastest hot topic throughout social media, but it’s neither a fad nor a new concept. Femininity has been a part of our world’s society since the beginning of time. Women from various religious sects, royal families and some celebrity icons built a reputation for their infatuating feminine grace such as the imperial princesses of Ethiopia and Geisha women in the Asian culture.
FACT: Femininity does NOT equate to weakness or beign a doormat which is one of the largest misconceptions about femininity. As feminine women, we do not stifle our personalities to appease the masses, but we embrace our softness, girlsih banter, and all of our individual unique qualities. Just as boldly as we walk in our natural essence, we do not cower at opposition. When challenges are present, we maintain our virute while relying on our wisdom and feminine intuition to resolve the situation at hand. Feminine women know how to be assertive when expressing her opinions, thoughts, and emotions without being combative and vulgar.
FACT: Society has conditioned our global culture to believe that a lady must be wealthy or have certain physical features to be considered feminine AND IT IS NOT TRUE! Femininity is not predicated upon a woman’s ethnicity, skin color, weight, hair texture, marital status, or economic background. Femininity is universal!
Stay beatuiful and feminine!
Shanti D.